For parFEAP you only need metis.
However if you are building metis via petsc I recommend parmetis and metis. We typicially build this into our petsc configuration. If you do it separately, then you will need to manually add the -l flags to the final link line.
Here is our current configuration line for petsc:
./configure --download-{parmetis,superlu_dist,mpich,ml,hypre,metis,mumps,scalapack,blacs} --with-debugging=0
Note we no longer have Prometheus in the configure as it has been superseded by GAMG in newer versions of petsc.