If you apply a force at a node in a solid element then you get a higher stress there. If you keep refining the mesh with the same force at the node, yes, the stress will get larger. Thus, if you wish to apply a moment to the end of a mesh of solid elements you would use a distributed traction to represent the moment and avoid singular stress. However, if you apply only over part of the boundary then where the traction becomes discontinuous there is again the possibility of a stress singularity. You should study an elasticity book to learn basic aspects of stress behavior.